I have long counseled my clients that bankruptcy should be viewed as a “strategic retreat” as opposed to a failure or embarrassment. In a capitalist society, people take risks, and innovation and prosperity springs from that risk taking. While you may not own a company, you are in charge of what marketer Harry Beckwith calls “You, Inc.” Every decision you make – whether it is buying a house, using your credit cards, choosing to buy or not buy insurance – has consequences and sometimes you will find yourself with a lot more bills than ready cash or prospects for enough cash.
As a bankruptcy lawyer, I see Chapter 7 and Chapter 13 as financial tools. It is not my role to past judgment on your decisions or make you feel guilty about making a particular decision. My role is to serve as a trusted financial confidante to help you understand the pros and cons of the powerful financial tool called bankruptcy.
In fact, when you do appear in bankruptcy court you will note that lawyers for your creditors, the trustees and even the judges are focused on financial solutions. Guilt and blame are not part of the equation. Like any other financial tool, bankruptcy requires you to follow certain rules, but the underlying meme is financial not emotional.
I am by no means alone in positing that your consideration of the bankruptcy option ought to arise from a reasoned, thoughtful and logical consideration of both bankruptcy and non-bankruptcy options. My colleague Frank Pepitone, a bankruptcy lawyer in Garden City, New York, argues that bankruptcy should be viewed as a type of rehabilitation. Here is his thoughtful analysis:
Bankruptcy as Financial Rehabilitation
In our society, when people face emotional or physical problems, many will seek therapy. Therapy can be as simple as talking things out with a family member or friend. In more extreme cases, people will seek the help of a professional in order to work though their problems. [Read more…] about Bankruptcy: Personal Redemption and Financial Rehabilitation
